The following is a question from a man on how women perceive orgasm and sex in general and whether it differs from how men view and feel about orgasm and sex.You can find my answers in Bold.If you are a women reader you can add your own answers in the comments and it will be appreciated.
Question: We (guys) love women’s bodies.When we’re in bed with beautiful women,we love to caress/kiss their face,breasts,bottoms..their entire body,really.We like to “play” with some parts,suck on some parts or simply lick them face to toe .My point is, We enjoy doing that,we need it,we don’t just do it to please our partner,it gives us a great amount of pleasure ourselves,the female body is amazing to us,we crave it .A woman can tease a man with her body till he feels like a monster waiting to be unleashed at her.Another thing,we (guys) get off on watching a woman orgasm,hearing her moan and scream.And again,women can actually use this to tease us saying stuff like “wanna make me cum,hear me moan..ect” and again we’re like monsters waiting for the cue to send her to orgasm town like our lives depended on it.You see,what’s amazing about women is that they can let you be a monster on them but they’re still dominating you : with their minds and “womanly spell” . It’s like they can demand to be dominated and/or pleased and they’re still the ones in-charge during the sex saying stuff like “Do me harder”..etc.They can also use the pleading approach and “beg” for it saying “Do me harder” pleadingly,and it still works.
Now If we want to reverse all of the above,I get the following questions in mind (don’t read the questions unless you’ve read what’s above so you can understand my point) :
1.Do women crave men’s body the same way men crave women’s body ? If so,what body parts do they like to kiss,caress,lick or play with ?
It is a generic question.Each women will have a different answer.I will give my view and you can get different answers from my women readers in comments.
My answer is …Not in the same way …Men love to give and women love to receive.Having said that we love to do a role reversal too for a change and fun.But not always.
2.Can a guy actually tease a woman with his body and use his “manly spell” till she can’t resist jumping all over him kissing/sucking him everywhere? Is there such a thing as “manly spell” in that context ?
Yes…He can definitely Turn her on and make her crave for him if he does the right things right.
3.Can a guy a tease a woman in a way to make her wanna ride him till he cums like her life depended on it ? If so,how?
I can’t talk for all women but personally for some women,it is not their goal to make him cum.It is something that happens eventually when the fun stops.
4.Can a guy “beg” a woman to unleash herself on him? Or will the pleading approach show him to be emasculate and would turn her off instantly ?
I don’t think pleading will work when she is not in that ‘Wild’ mood.
5.Can a guy demand to be dominated/pleased and still be taking charge?how?
Yes.Because he is allowing you to dominate he is still the one in charge.
6.Does this sound g-ay to you all ? lol. Ok,don’t answer this one.
Ha.No but it is different since men in general don’t go in detail like this.
All of this makes me wonder on the dynamics of attraction between men and women and how they desire each other differently..or not so differently? What do you think ?
P.s : I’m not talking about relationships,dating.personalities,communication.I’m talking about pure sex,initiation approaches,seduction techniques,dirty talk,moves,teasing..etc..I’m also aware that men can tease and dominate/be dominated by women in other ways but let’s focus on the aspects I’ve introduced here.Thanks for reading