Orgasm secrets questions and answers

Posted on June 16, 2013 by Aimee

The following is a question from a man on how women perceive orgasm and sex in general and whether it differs from how men view and feel about orgasm and sex.You can find my answers in Bold.If you are a women reader you can add your own answers in the comments and it will be appreciated.

Question: We (guys) love women’s bodies.When we’re in bed with beautiful women,we love to caress/kiss their face,breasts,bottoms..their entire body,really.We like to “play” with some parts,suck on some parts or simply lick them face to toe .My point is, We enjoy doing that,we need it,we don’t just do it to please our partner,it gives us a great amount of pleasure ourselves,the female body is amazing to us,we crave it .A woman can tease a man with her body till he feels like a monster waiting to be unleashed at her.Another thing,we (guys) get off on watching a woman orgasm,hearing her moan and scream.And again,women can actually use this to tease us saying stuff like “wanna make me cum,hear me moan..ect” and again we’re like monsters waiting for the cue to send her to orgasm town like our lives depended on it.You see,what’s amazing about women is that they can let you be a monster on them but they’re still dominating you : with their minds and “womanly spell” . It’s like they can demand to be dominated and/or pleased and they’re still the ones in-charge during the sex saying stuff like “Do me harder”..etc.They can also use the pleading approach and “beg” for it saying “Do me harder” pleadingly,and it still works.

Now If we want to reverse all of the above,I get the following questions in mind (don’t read the questions unless you’ve read what’s above so you can understand my point) :

1.Do women crave men’s body the same way men crave women’s body ? If so,what body parts do they like to kiss,caress,lick or play with ?

It is a generic question.Each women will have a different answer.I will give my view and you can get different answers from my women readers in comments.

My answer is …Not in the same way …Men love to give and women love to receive.Having said that we love to do a role reversal too for a change and fun.But not always.

2.Can a guy actually tease a woman with his body and use his “manly spell” till she can’t resist jumping all over him kissing/sucking him everywhere? Is there such a thing as “manly spell” in that context ?

Yes…He can definitely Turn her on and make her crave for him if he does the right things right.

3.Can a guy a tease a woman in a way to make her wanna ride him till he cums like her life depended on it ? If so,how?

I can’t talk for all women but personally for some women,it is not their goal to make him cum.It is something that happens eventually when the fun stops.

4.Can a guy “beg” a woman to unleash herself on him? Or will the pleading approach show him to be emasculate and would turn her off instantly ?

I don’t think pleading will work when she is not in that ‘Wild’ mood.

5.Can a guy demand to be dominated/pleased and still be taking charge?how?

Yes.Because he is allowing you to dominate he is still the one in charge.

6.Does this sound g-ay to you all ? lol. Ok,don’t answer this one.

Ha.No but it is different since men in general don’t go in detail like this.

All of this makes me wonder on the dynamics of attraction between men and women and how they desire each other differently..or not so differently? What do you think ?

P.s : I’m not talking about relationships,dating.personalities,communication.I’m talking about pure sex,initiation approaches,seduction techniques,dirty talk,moves,teasing..etc..I’m also aware that men can tease and dominate/be dominated by women in other ways but let’s focus on the aspects I’ve introduced here.Thanks for reading

Ancient sex and orgasm secrets

Posted on May 16, 2013 by Aimee

There are amazing sex and orgasm techniques lying hidden and waiting to be understood correctly and used from whatever little sex literature available to us from the ancient times.The most popular and well known ancient sex literature are the ‘Tao Te Ching,Jade bed chamber’ from china and ‘Kama sutra’ from India and ‘The Perfumed Garden’ other arabic books and poems and ‘Ishimpo’ from Japan.No surprise that there is little contribution from the ancient western communities and all most all literature are from asian countries.

Sculptures depicting the ancient sex secrets

While Kama sutra is well known only for sexual love making positions it also has many tips and techniques on how to enhance the orgasmic pleasures of lovers.Unlike the chinese books on sex kamasutra does not mix spirituality with love and lust.It directly focuses on the carnal pleasures that can be experienced by the union of men and women which makes it more likable for the western audience. The chines counterpart books consider the men’s energy as ‘Yang’-Positive and women’s energy as ‘yin’-Negative and they deal with sexual energy works and alongside describes the enhancement of sexual pleasures as a bonus.In the ancient times the Chines had some form of adult education in place.Married couples recorded their sexual experiences and added them to the existing manual of sex secrets and these manuals were to be presented to the Newly married brides.The Brides were to hide these books under the pillow and read them and pleasure their men and add their own experiences in the book.I just can’t stop admiring the wealth of information in these kind of books that are written by experiencing and experience.Most of the erotic books available don’t have much value in them and they can be read only as fiction.The Chinese civilization celebrated sex and sexuality and considered that sex between men and women is for the betterment of the human community both physically and spiritually.Irony is the western counterpart were suppressing sexual expression and burnt whatever little literature that were written on sexual subject.The Good news is,Right Now, the western civilization is waken to the reality and is interested in learning the ancient sexual techniques that teach sex as a tool for improving the human physically mentally and spiritually.

An interesting sex fact is that the ancient chinese and Indians had a advanced astrological books which can calculate the sexual compatibility of the bride and groom by just having their birth date and times.The Indians even calculate the ‘Yoni match’ -whether the women’s genitals will match her bridegroom and marriages will be confirmed by families only if these match perfectly.

(To be Continued…)

Orgasm face images Compilation

Posted on April 25, 2013 by Aimee

The orgasm face is a wonderful thing.Men love to see their women’s face when they are experiencing an orgasm for a variety of reasons.They want their women to look back in to their eyes and indulge in soul gazing.

This post is just a effort to compile the best pictures of the orgasm faces…

The first Picture is the all time favorite orgasm face of mine…

Orgasm face image collection

I have also added a video of Orgasm face.

How many orgasm can a women have in one session in bed?

Posted on February 10, 2013 by Aimee

We all know that women can have multiple orgasms in bed while lovemaking.Unlike men who have to quit after they have orgasm and ejaculate women can experience the ultimate pleasure multiple Times.May be it’s Natures way of rewarding women for all the sacrifices and hardships she has to go through during pregnancy and childbirth.Of course some Men can have multiple orgasms and they call it Male multiple orgasms,but it is very rare and we can discuss about that on some other day.

Now that you know for sure that women can have multiple orgasms(Since women’s orgasms is not so obvious as the male version is…) the next question that may be on your mind is ….How many orgasms can a women have in one session or in one night in bed?

Well women on average can have four to eight Orgasms in one session assuming that her partner is also very good in bed and can give her that.Do know what is the world record for the most number of orgasms a women experienced in one session?(Yes there are world records for all sorts of things these days)

Beleive it or not a women named Pernille had 226 orgasms at a time.She Created that all time unbeaten world record in 2009 in Denmark in a event called “Masturbate-a-thon”.Wow! That is a amazing number that is unimaginable for most women like us.That is why i have provided my source of information in the below link…

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masturbate-a-thon#Current_records

Ladies…Don’t get discouraged by that number.As a general rule the pleasure of orgasms go down drastically after it goes double digits so let’s just be happy with what we can have.

Hope i have shared something interesting and new with you.Will soon catch up with you guys and girls in my next post.

Secret Orgasms-What is secret orgasms?

Posted on January 29, 2013 by Aimee

Orgasm is the highest form of pleasure men and women can experience in this world. Ironically orgasm is not a topic that is discussed in the mainstream media and it is considered as a taboo subject by many.The result is that most of the knowledge about orgasms remain a secret.Many people just want to get it in and go with the thrusting and they consider orgasm as nothing but a end to lovemaking.No wonder Sex for such people gets mundane and they lose interest in intercourse and their partners are left to look elsewhere to quench their craving for pleasure.

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secret orgasms

A few Oriental books like kamasutra,tantra and Chinese erotic literature do talk about intercourse in general and a little bit about the secrets of orgasms but they talk with metaphors and hidden meanings that it is almost difficult to derive a meaning form those texts for the ordinary western minds.

This blog is a honest effort to talk about orgasms and share the different secrets of orgasms experienced by men and women all over the world.I will Try to talk about female orgasms,male orgasms,female multiple orgasms as well as different type of orgasms like clitoral orgasm and squirting orgasms and different techniques to heighten the orgasmic experience.

Back to the topic…So,what is the secret orgasms?What is the secret in orgasm anyway?Everybody experience orgasm,so what’s so secret about it?

By Secret orgasms i refer to squirting orgasms,used to be referred as female ejaculation.It is a orgasm that a women experience like men.The orgasm is accompanied by the squirting of a colorless odorless fluid along with ultimate sensations and pleasures for the women.Most men also enjoy this secret orgasms.We will talk about this in detail.But if you are curious then click the above link and learn more about secret orgasms.